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Sharing faith
- Sharing my story

Actually sharing our story is a personal event in a particular setting with a specific person. It cannot be done according to a formula. However, there are a few principles and hints we can draw from Jesus Himself.

This thread (Sharing faith):
  1. Why bother?
  2. What is my story?
  3. Making contact with others
  4. Sharing my story
  5. Nailing it down

A life-changing encounter

Read John 4:1-42. It is clear that the woman's life changed as she heard Jesus' message and began to follow Him. We will look at this passage in more detail now.

 

Verses 1 to 7

Where was Jesus?

He was out and about, where He would meet real people

 

Verses 7-9

What did Jesus do here?

Establishing common ground (making a friendship) is essential to a meaningful conversation.
What else was Jesus doing in social terms?

As a Jewish male speaking with a Samaritan female, He broke with social norms. Breaking with social conventions or preconceived ideas is often useful. (e.g. "christians don't go to pubs"; "Christians are nerdy anoraks who don't have real conversations"; "Christians don't care about people, they only want to bible-bash"; etc.; etc.)

 

Verses 10-15

What was Jesus doing here?

He aroused the woman's interest, moving the conversation on in a slightly quirky way.
Could we move that fast?

The Samaritan woman was already religious, and Jesus knew that. We may well have to move the conversation on to moral, or topical issues before getting into the spiritual.
In your experience, are people willing to talk about spiritual things?
They are willing, more often than we expect. They do not want to be preached at, nor do they want religiosity. But genuine debate and conversation on spiritual lines can often happen. Even a direct question like, "by the way, are you interested in spiritual things?", may often work.

 

Verses 13-19

Don't push too far. Did the woman understand what Jesus said in verses 13 and 14?

Even though she misinterpreted what Jesus said, He let it go, and didn't push all the way at once. We need to go as far as people want to, or can, and stop. We can always come back.
Did Jesus condemn the woman for her lifestyle?

It would have been easy for Jesus to be pious about her loose morals, but He isn't. For us to take a holier-than-thou attitude is a big turn off. It's up to the Lord to change people's lifestyle - and it will take time. If they know God cares, they'll be interested. If they think they're condemned, they will turn away.

 

Verses 20-24

Don't get side-tracked. What did the woman want to get on to?

Religious observance was not on Jesus' agenda. He wanted to talk about her relationship with God. So He stuck to worship, rather than the religious issues of place and buildings. We need to try to avoid getting caught up with people's moans and prejudices about the church, or religion in general. It is Jesus we need to present.

 

Verse 26

What happened here?

Jesus was finally direct about who He was. There comes a time - and we have to judge carefully when it is - that we have to simply present Jesus directly as the one to believe in and follow. It may take several conversations, but until it happens we are skating round the edge.

 

Any questions?

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Bible references

John 4:1-42
1The Pharisees heard that Jesus was gaining and baptizing more disciples than John, 2although in fact it was not Jesus who baptized, but his disciples. 3When the Lord learned of this, he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee. 4Now he had to go through Samaria. 5So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about the sixth hour. 7When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, "Will you give me a drink?" 8(His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)

9The Samaritan woman said to him, "You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?" (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.)

10Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water."

11"Sir," the woman said, "you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? 12Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his flocks and herds?"

13Jesus answered, "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life."

15The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water." 16He told her, "Go, call your husband and come back." 17"I have no husband," she replied.

Jesus said to her, "You are right when you say you have no husband. 18The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true." 19"Sir," the woman said, "I can see that you are a prophet. 20Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem."

21Jesus declared, "Believe me, woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth."

25The woman said, "I know that Messiah" (called Christ) "is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us."

26Then Jesus declared, "I who speak to you am he."

27Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking with a woman. But no one asked, "What do you want?" or "Why are you talking with her?"

28Then, leaving her water jar, the woman went back to the town and said to the people, 29"Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did. Could this be the Christ?" 30They came out of the town and made their way toward him.

31Meanwhile his disciples urged him, "Rabbi, eat something." 32But he said to them, "I have food to eat that you know nothing about."

33Then his disciples said to each other, "Could someone have brought him food?"

34"My food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. 35Do you not say, ‘Four months more and then the harvest’? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest. 36Even now the reaper draws his wages, even now he harvests the crop for eternal life, so that the sower and the reaper may be glad together. 37Thus the saying ‘One sows and another reaps’ is true. 38I sent you to reap what you have not worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor."

39Many of the Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, "He told me everything I ever did." 40So when the Samaritans came to him, they urged him to stay with them, and he stayed two days. 41And because of his words many more became believers.

42They said to the woman, "We no longer believe just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this man really is the Savior of the world."

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